Just Stop… and Think…

What happens when you try to make a computer or phone do too many things at once? It freezes. It slows to an abysmally slow pace. It doesn’t function to its’ maximum potential. Errors occur.

The same can result in the overload we all currently have on our minds. We suffer from brain overload.

From the moment we open our eyes, our minds immediately go into overdrive. Our days are filled with errands, work, family, meetings, deadlines, schedules, relationships, interactions and technology. We have happy moments and extreme stress. Our bodies respond and we either don’t function at our maximum potential, or we just stop wanting to do anything at all.

As studied by the American Psychological Association (APA):

“When stress starts interfering with your ability to live a normal life for an extended period, it becomes even more dangerous. The longer the stress lasts, the worse it is for both your mind and body. You might feel fatigued, unable to concentrate or irritable for no good reason, for example. But chronic stress causes wear and tear on your body, too.”

Let’s be realistic. In order to achieve big goals and make big dreams come true, we aren’t going to be able to shut out all of the distractions that surround us. We are now part of a generation that experiences text message notifications, news bulletins, phone calls, game requests, email notifications, alarms, reminders, direction instructions, health reminders, bank notifications, and much more… and that is just from the small device in the palm of our hands.

The APA has a list of recommendations to help reduce the stress and overload. One recommendation is to give your mind a rest! With having so much on our minds, we tend to not truly rest at night. How can we remedy this?

Just stop… And think…

Dedicate some time every week to unplugging from all of the distractions. First, give yourself the space and environment you need for peace. Find a quiet area in your home, visit a tranquil park, or find an intimate coffee shop. Next, make sure you don’t rush yourself. Allow your mind to wander. Have a pad of paper and a pen near you to write down any notes/thoughts you feel are important and do not want to forget. Write down your thoughts and once you are done, you can strategize how you can tackle any issues or problems that are weighing on you. Most importantly, do NOT have any distractions such as a phone or television near you. Fifteen to thirty minutes a week is a great start to help you relieve some of the stress and overload on your mind.

Give this a try this week and let us know if it helped you with some of your brain overload!



The Morning Routine…

I have a declaration of love I would like to share with the entire world…


I truly do. I love it so much, that it breaks my heart to have to leave it early in the mornings!

I know many people hit the SNOOZE button once in a blue moon just to get a few more minutes of rest, but my SNOOZE usage is excessive. I have two alarms set on my phone and I snooze them about 5 times. It takes me a good 30 minutes to get out of bed in the morning. I just can’t help it! This morning all the stars aligned! My bed was so soft, my sheets had the fresh just-cleaned scent, I was warm, and I was in the most COMFORTABLE position. I was on a cloud! Then it all had to be ruined by my alarm.

I even try to make my alarms annoying enough to get me out of bed! I have the “there is a nuclear meltdown occurring just down the street” alarm tone on my phone. Still. My bed. ❤

I’m not even too cranky in the mornings. I’m just not incredibly alert, awake and roaring to go. Give me 30 minutes to try and remember my name, the date, and where I am.

I’ve laid off drinking coffee, but I was never one to go running to a coffee pot early in the morning either. I would pick up a latte close to the office and use it as a jump start to get to work.

So for now… I sit here at the office daydreaming about my bed… The fluffy pillows… The soft sheets… *drool*